Choosing the Right Therapist

Today, I want to chat about something that has been a game-changer in many mental health journeys – finding the right therapist for yourself. Maybe you’ve already gone down the google rabbit hole of trying to decide which therapist feels right. After all, it can feel like a huge decision, and it truly is! As therapists, we recognize the courage it takes to share one's deepest feelings and thoughts, and we approach this privilege with utmost respect and confidentiality.

 

As someone who has worn both the hat of a therapy-seeker and, as the therapist, I've come to a simple yet profound realization: it's all about the relationship. Yes, it's the therapeutic relationship that sets the tone for success and progress.

 

In my own search for a therapist, I grappled with the alphabet soup of different licensures and wondered what exactly a AMFT, Psy.D,. or an LCSW meant for my well-being. But as I immersed myself in the world of becoming a therapist, I discovered that while the education and experience are crucial, it's the human behind the title that truly matters.

 

Therapy, to me, is a beautiful blend of theory, science, and art. It's not just about techniques and methodologies; it's about the unique essence that each therapist brings into the room. So, if you're on the quest for your perfect match, here are a few things to consider.

 

Firstly, what's the therapist’s niche? What specific challenges do they excel in tackling? For instance, clients often find their way to me because of my expertise in addressing trauma, anxiety, grief, and perfectionism. Each therapist has a unique offering, so don't be afraid to explore until you find the right fit. Finding a therapist aligned with your needs can make all the difference!

 

And speaking of specifics, identify what you're looking to solve. Is it the broad strokes of anxiety, or do you need someone who specializes in managing symptoms of ADHD? Knowing your focus can guide you to the therapist with the right toolkit. Therapy is a deeply personal journey, and your comfort is a priority.

 

Remember, your mental health journey is a masterpiece, and the right therapist is your collaborator in its creation. Trust your instincts, ask questions, and honor the beautiful complexity that makes you, you.

 

Wishing you all the courage and curiosity on your path to finding the perfect therapeutic companion.

-Joelle Santiago

Disclaimer:

The information provided in this blog post is intended for general informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a mental health condition.

If you are experiencing a mental health emergency or crisis, please contact your local emergency services immediately or go to the nearest emergency room.


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